Man and woman are different when it comes to attraction. Man usually attracted by the physical appearance first but woman is more attracted to the personality. That's the basic principle of attraction between man and woman. Now, let's talk about the underlying process that creates attraction for woman.
Attraction isn't a choice. It's an emotional reaction. Women don't "choose" to feel attraction for a man. You maybe know that woman would choose a man who is taller than her, but if you see the reality, you can see that many women is go out and date with a man who is shorter than her. What happen here?? Attraction is not a choice.
Attraction isn't logical, in the sense that it isn't created by things that "should" create it. Buying women dinner and gifts, giving lots of compliments when you first meet a woman, and kissing up to women to get their approval are examples of "logical" things that should create attraction, but don't. When you understand how attraction works, you begin to see that it has a "logic" all its own. If you really understand how attraction works then almost anything will work. If you will take the time to learn how and why women feel that interesting and magical emotional response called attraction for some rare men, and not for all the other men running around, then everything changes.
Here are a few interesting points. There are a few physical cues, or specific types of "body language" that instantly tell a woman whether or not you're a guy that is even worth a second glance.
If you don't know what these things are, and how to use them, then the game will be over before it has even started. Scary. Women test men constantly. And attractive women test men much more intensely than "regular" women. If you don't know how to spot these tests (and most of them are very subtle), and then deal with them, you're going to lose your chance to create attraction before you even get it.
Ok, so what should we guys do to? Take time and learn how attraction works for women...